The L word...

Ok, so what i have noticed lately is that everyone throws the L word around like its nothing. Call me old fashion but i think that word is such a strong word and should be only said when you mean it...and YOU KNOW ITS TRUE.

I mean i see all over my facebook that these guys or girls, get in a relationship and not even a week has passed they post statuses about how much they "love" the other half and how they are so amazing yadda yadda yadda...but what pisses me off is just a couple weeks before they had a status up about how they loved another guy they were dating.

Everytime i see them i just want to grab them by the shoulders and shout..."SHUT UP! YOUR NOT ACTUALLY IN LOVE WITH THIS GUY!"

Some people tell me that I'm an idiot someone could love someone that quick, that I'm just bitter cause I'm single...and then i just look and them and I think how is that being bitter? Apparently cause I'm not happy for them, that what they THINK they feel is love. But hey if you THINK its love...chances are its not....

Love is something you FEEL not THINK. Whats funny is....when i do tell people its not love they feel they laugh thinking i dont know shit...but then a week later they come back to me crying saying how I was right.

or what I've seen on facebook after the so called "love-birds" break up...

the guys posts statuses bout how they girl was a slut and doing him wrong or whatever but im just like dude shut the fuck up. 

ok enough of my babbling.

basically i find it ridiculous that in this day and age people say they love their bf/gf within the first week and not even actually mean it.

while i've said it to one guy and meant it and it took me a whole YEAR to say it...i think im still going to wait until i find the one i REALLY love...

and hope that you people do too.

Nothing is what is seems

 

Everyone has heard of the phrase "never judge a book by it's cover" honestly, this phrase is the best phrase ever created. I try my hardest to live off of this phrase, but hey even the shallow me wins at times.

But there is something else to it, you see someone, whether it's someone you know, or some random person, and you might think "oh hey that person must be happy I mean look at that smile." but honestly, that person can just be faking it. You don't know what's going on through peoples mind.

Lately, people have been telling me that I'm mean or a bitch or tough, but what they don't know is, that I have been bullied since I was a little girl, I used to show weakness, emotions when i was younger growing up. Now, I've learned not to, guys try to put me down by telling me I'm ugly? I just laugh it off, tell them ok thanks for the comment I'll take it into consideration and I'll get back to you. Honestly, that's all I can do anymore when someone tries to put me down, i laugh.


I got bullied growing up, and i got tough. There are people who got bullied, but they didn't find the strength. Many people have ended their lives because of it. Some people find it funny, but its not.

"According to statistics reported by ABC News, nearly 30 percent of students are either bullies or victims of bullying, and 160,000 kids stay home from school every day because of fear of bullying" Seriously? 160,000 kids have to suffer their education/life just because of someone being SO insecure they have to bring some innocent person down?

Questions to bullies: Does bullying someone REALLY make you feel better?

How many more people have to die because of this?
sometimes whats on the outside isnt whats inside, this is the truth